How To Get Over Him - swiftly

Let me make one thing clear: this has nothing to do with love.

How To Get Over Him - swiftly

How To Get Over Him - swiftly

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How To Get Over Him - swiftly

How To Get Over Him - swiftly

I'm no expert. The very word makes me nauseous and sets my body to a defensive mode. But I have had my heart broken once or twice. Badly. By some pathetic loser by the way who, in my blissful immature ignorance, contained my whole world: my oxygen, my insides, my theorize for being without whom I'd wither and die to nothingness blah, blah.

Somebody should have whacked me across the head with a Dr. Phil self-help bestseller in hard cover - it may have been adequate to cause selective amnesia. But no, I have had to endure many, many self-inflicted humiliations the magnitude of which roughly surpasses George W. Bush's abundant stream of faux pas, which I theorize contain nuking someone's ticker.

With no passage to a warhead, however, to deploy my heart's retribution, I resorted to good old fashioned emotional meltdown that rivaled Chernobyl. Not only have I said and done it all in the name of witless love - things I loathe to report lest the wrath of Virginia Woolf strikes me dead - I have listened excruciatingly to my girlfriends and their hearts' lament on losing Mr. Loser, er, Mr. Right. And the twisted plot to get him back.

What I bemoan most of all is that not one good sista gave it to me straight. That I will change.

So, if a looming break-up is advent your way (trust me, we can all see it coming!), read, learn and gain wisdom from the mistakes of others because you don't want to make them all!

For the ladies who have been-there-done-that and, hopefully, out of the singles jungle, enjoying the safety and relieve of Tarzan's itsybitsy love-nest high up on the treetops, be a real friend and show the girls how it's done.

Delete, delete, delete ... All traces of your ex.

If your memory is good than mine, there are two phone numbers you know by heart: your mum's and your ex's. In your quest to "get over him", first, delete him from your digital memory store starting with your mobile phone. Erase his mobile number, work phone, home phone, his best friend's number, his mother's number - especially!

If you're an Im user, block him immediately and blacklist his email address from your mailbox.

Then take off every piece of clothing, toiletry and dirty underwear he left behind in your bathroom. And no, don't even think of washing and neatly packaging these into a bundle for him. The concierge has concluded and will not be re-opening. Ever.

Whatever you do, Do Not call him.

It's pathetic, really. What are you hoping to accomplish? No, you won't get him back because he's not advent back. The bottom line is if he dumped you, he's not into you. Sound familiar? The word on the street is true and there's literally nothing you can do about it.

Ok, so there are those lucky habitancy that get back together and live happily ever after.

In the movies!

If you're living in the same world as I, you know it's the exception, not the rule. Sadly, most women seem to think, to their detriment, that their situation is somehow always an exception: as if they live in a parallel reality where the rules of engagement do not apply because for some unknown and far-imagined reason, many are under the illusion that they're immune to life's cruel veracity. Well, you're not. The rule of life rules, unless the odd exception, freak-of-nature type event occurs. And it rarely happens. The sooner you realise that, the better.

So, in your moment of pathetic weakness, it's thoroughly understandable and even suitable to max out your reputation card for much needed retail therapy. Even indulge in uncharacteristically obscene behaviour together with binge-drinking, a drunken pash or two with faultless strangers, or hysterical emotional outbursts in embarrassingly crowded places. Just make sure you're in the firm of habitancy who give a damn about you - your friends.

Scream. Cry. Laugh. Do anyone it takes to flush him out of your system. But for goodness' sake, do not call your ex.

Should I return the gold watch he gave me?
Are you kidding me? It's yours. Keep it. Or good yet, take all the vital items he's ever given you to cash converters - the gold necklace for your birthday, the gorgeous pair of earrings last Christmas and that gorgeous bangle for Valentine's Day. Then buy yourself a new pair of Jimmy Choos. It will elevate your height as well as your mood.

Turning his high-priced itsybitsy gifts, which are rightfully yours, into cold hard cash will satisfy a scorned woman's desire for sweet revenge. Albeit briefly. But who cares? Right now, itsybitsy victories are what you need to get you over the line. And over him.

Let's be friends? Yeah, right!
Oh, please! If you are insisting on remaining friends with an ex who dumped you like vomit, you're up o something and it won't do you any good.

Problem is, you can't see it. So let me make it clearer for you: he's not advent back.

Wake up and smell the stench. You're standing on a huge pile of horseshit collected over the years starting from the time you believed in the myth of Cinderella. Didn't you know? She divorced her prince two months later: they weren't compatible after all.

So, think long and hard about your real motivations. Life is good but it ain't a fairytale.

If he's the one wanting to remain friends, well, beware. Remember, he dumped you. So it's neither an invitation for renewed romance nor for any kind of "real" friendship you want or need right now.

Let me tell you a itsybitsy secret. Most guys, unfortunately, are cowards. They are scared to death of hurting our feelings because we all go "emotional on them!. They will do anyone to weasel their way out of very difficult situations. The fact is, if he wants you, and I mean want-you-so-badly-it-hurts, there are no mixed messages. He will move heaven and earth to be with you. If he's not in to you, the only thing he'll move is his thumb: "want 2 come over 2nite?"

Need I say more?

Get a life ... Darn good one!
The sweetest revenge is to live a happy life. And it's the only way to live.

But first, change your sheets.

Call your friends. Dance around the house in your underwear or naked if you prefer. Attend a party. Drink good champagne. Wear amazingly red lipstick. Strut around in ridiculously high stilettos. Visit your hairdresser.

Smile.

Chat up a good seeing guy at a funky bar. Wear perfume. Flirt. Play games and play it cool. This time, you're the predator, not the prey. Take a risk.

You're so sexy. Who wouldn't want you?

And if you're still weary of rejoining the singles jungle, here's a tip: run an ad for a male flatmate. You may be surprised at what you'll find. Tarzan might just come knocking at your door.

Live life. It's the only one you've got.

Robelen Bajar is a freelance writer with a Mr. Strong Man who's so in to her.

How To Get Over Him - swiftly

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Helpful Bugs

Most of us, with the irregularity of boys between the ages of four and ten, wrinkle our noses when man mentions bugs or insects. There are many bugs that are truly pests such as roaches and red ants. But there are other bugs that are in fact helpful bugs. If you take a few moments to learn about the helpful bugs that may be in your yard or garden, you can save money on pest control. Yes, one of natures best pest operate recipe is bugs. You do not need to eliminate these bugs, these helpful bugs will work to eliminate bad bugs in your garden.

Helpful Bugs

Helpful Bugs

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Helpful Bugs

Helpful Bugs

In increasing to using bugs you can use natures best operate - you. You can pick, wash or vacuum pests off plants to operate infestations. Pulling weeds also helps get rid of unwanted bugs and helps your organery grown though there are in fact some weeds that are beneficial. Deep-rooted weeds such as thistles, pigweeds, and nightshades can bring up minerals from the subsoil that are then carried to the topsoil. When these weeds die and decompose the minerals are there for your plants to use. Deep roots weeds can also originate space for water and for roots of less aggressive plants.

Here are some bugs that will exterminate bad bugs in your garden...

Centipedes - Centipedes will kill caterpillars, grubs, slugs and fly larvae and pupae.

Ground beetle - Ground beetle larvae form in the soil and prey on slugs, root maggots, cutworms, and other pests that live on the ground.

Spiders -. Spiders are spectacular, at exterminating other insects. Spiders keep the insect population down by feeding on just about whatever with six legs. Plus only a very few types of spiders are risky to humans.

Lace wings - Green lacewing are awesome predators. Sometimes called "aphid lions," the larvae of the lacewing can consume an expected number of aphids.They also eat scales, motes, caterpillars and othe pests. Larvae hunt for soft-bodied prey, using their curved, pointed mandibles to stab the prey.

Lady beetle or lady bug - these helpful insects are very pretty and their larvae and adult bugs eat soft-bodied insects such as aphids, mealybugs and scale insects.

Minute pirate bugs - minute pirate bugs usually portion a 1/16th inch long, so it is unlikely you will even see them. They eat aphids, mites, and thrips.

Helpful Bugs

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How to Make a Move - The First Kiss

Welcome back!

How to Make a Move - The First Kiss

How to Make a Move - The First Kiss

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How to Make a Move - The First Kiss

How to Make a Move - The First Kiss

Before I get into to it I want to make sure everyone is up to date. First, make sure you have signed up for the free crash course on approaching and attracting women at my website. Second, make sure you have read my first articles called "How to make a move - Keys to dating". There is some info in both the course and the previous description you will need to get the most out of this one.

Ok, so last time we looked at "crucial moments" you touch when dating a girl. These are the moments most guys get a large case of nerves from as they have the inherent of foremost to rejection.

We looked at the scenario of getting a girls number, and also asking for a date. Today we look at how to put in order and act on the first date, and then the ever so nerve wracking first kiss.

Ahhh the first date. I love the first date. I get charged up. I love women and I get excited to survey each one I go out with.

On the first date, you want to make a good impression, but you also have to treat it as though it is her chance to make an impression on you.

I know many guys who go into it reasoning they have to do all things they can to impress. I don't agree with this mindset. Sure, I'm going out to show her a good time. But I'm also finding to see if she meets up to my standards.

A few things you must do before each date:

Shower - Maybe even twice. Scrub yourself down. Wash every wee flap, crevice, hair etc. On your body. And wash your feet for crying out loud.

Wear clean clothes - Especially socks! And please make sure your outfit is coordinated. I wrote an earlier description about self revising in the area of appearance that you can look up if you want some more tips on wardrobe.

Brush, floss, rinse and scrape - I remember one girl I went out with that had horrid breath. It was a perfect turnoff even though she was highly attractive. Don't fall into the same boat.

Brush your teeth. Use a tongue scraper (Honestly, this is so important) and floss. Ensue this up with a rinse with mouthwash.

Wear a cologne - A new survey I did revealed Lacoste Red, Guess Man and Ck Euphoria (best 3 out of 15 tested). You don't have to rush out and buy one of these, just make sure you smell nice.

Ok, now on to the date itself.

It's foremost to act calm and relaxed when you meet the woman. Roughly indifferent. This doesn't mean you ignore her or act cold towards hers, but you don't automatically act as though she is person you are curious in.

Make sure you don't fall into the trap of having an "interview" type date. So many first dates involve the typical questions like "tell me about your family" or "what did you take in school" blah blah blah. These questions are verily just time fillers. I avoid them altogether on a first date.

Try to be funny and confident. It is best to be laid back and bring up funny topics than be like every other guy and ask the above questions. Keep it light. I go into this in more detail in my free crash course - sign up today if you have not already.

Approach the date as though she has to prove her worthiness to you. You don't want to be one of those guys who automatically goes into it with the idea that he has to do all things he can to impress her.

Remember, you want to make a good impression but you want to come across as unique. And, as I have talked about in the past - you want to make her see you as a challenge.

Let's jump into my favorite moment. The first kiss.

This is where guys tend to be highly nervous. However, there is no need to be. Let me give you some tips so that you will know when the time is right, and how to execute. Here is a great way of gauging if she will be responsive.

While you are talking to a girl, start stroking her hair. Making a annotation like "your hair is so soft" is all the time a good idea. If she seems to enjoy this, then I have no fear of going in for a kiss.

You don't have to stroke her hair - gently rub her leg, hold her hands etc. Just make a uncomplicated gesture that involves some form of corporeal touch and then read her reaction.

Her body language will tell you a lot. Does she lean into you? Is she smiling? Does she touch you back? Does she giggle? These are all very obvious things.

Follow your instincts and then just go for it. If you have been following my guidance from the crash course you signed up for at my website, then you have most likely built up her level of attraction to the point she is dying to kiss you.

Remember. It is imperative you pay attentiveness to her body language and that you have built up her relieve level throughout your time with her. Most importantly - shove aside any of your hesitations. You can't let your nerves stand in the way of a passionate kiss.

Once you get past stage you open up the doors to all sorts of kinds of intimacy. It can be a big turning point in your interaction with a woman.

That wraps it up for today. Hopefully you feel comfortable in Making a move and going in for that first kiss! Feel free to email me with any questions or stories you might have!

How to Make a Move - The First Kiss

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House Flies - Unwanted Winter Guests

As the winter nears many insects become scarce. Adult house flies, for example, die off. Thank goodness for that I hear you say. Just remember though, that house fly eggs live on and are to be found in their larval or pupal stage hiding in some dung or in some rubbish somewhere. They may also be laid in warm attics or rafters. Flies are opportunistic and will lay their eggs everywhere that is a food source. For instance, if a mouse of bird has died in your attic, flies will use its rotting corpse as the perfect host for its young.

House Flies - Unwanted Winter Guests

House Flies - Unwanted Winter Guests

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House Flies - Unwanted Winter Guests

House Flies - Unwanted Winter Guests

If the pupae or larvea were face they would stay dormant through the cold weather. The problem with lofts though, is that warm air tends to rise and keep them relatively warm. The eggs won't stay dormant for long. The warmth in the loft will follow in continuous amelioration until the young flies are ultimately hatched and, as is their nature, start to rove colse to looking for food.

They won't go far. In the winter, the only source of heat will be the house itself. They may stay trapped in the loft and might die off once all food sources have been exhausted. They may also die off if the house occupants go on vacation and turn off the heating. In many situations however, they will make their way into the living quarters of the house and start to do their nasty work of landing on and sampling discrete foodstuffs. The kitchen is one of their favourite destinations.

So what can be done to preclude your house (or business, hospital or school) playing host to these unwanted guests through the winter?

1. Try to plug any gaps in the roof area and other areas in the construction to ensure that pests can not invade in the first place. You may reconsider installing Insectocutor fly screens

2. Commonly check roof spaces and other rarely habited areas for any dead creatures. For instance check rat traps and the like. Also, clear away any rubbish.

3. Make sure there are no leaks or damp areas. These can aid infestation.

4. If possible, turn off all heating for a miniature period. The only practical time you may reconsider this is if the construction is not being used for a while. If you are going on vacation this would be a good time to ensure all heating is turned off. Businesses can use the Christmas break for the same purpose. For hospitals this choice will not be ready of course.

5. Use fly killers. Insectocutor fly killers can be purchased from Arkay Hygiene (see below).

Cluster flies are a singular nuisance. You may need to purchase an Insectocutor Se22 or Se44 fly killer with the catch tray removed and a large metal package positioned directly underneath it (the quarterly catch tray would not be able to cope with the sheer numbers of lump flies).

If you already have fly killer machines, don't forget to check them. Arkay Hygiene stock a range of spare parts together with a wide uv bulb range, transformers, lamp starters and lamp holders. Don't forget that the ultra violet output of the lamps degrades after a year of recommended use. If your lamp is a year old then fit a new one.

It's bad adequate being plagued by flies in the summer. Let's hope you have a rest from them this winter!

House Flies - Unwanted Winter Guests

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